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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, I’m hijackjng, but what do y’all say about this scenario:

I work myself and only make about $48k. My BF makes ~$350k. We’ve been dating for a year and just moved in together. Discuss marriage, future, etc. I am 31, he’s 33.

I have $13k in debt. Part consumer, part medical/ vet bills, part ‘I’m trying to start my own business and it had a very slow start so I needed to use CC’s for a while. 
I don’t even touch the CC’s anymore. It’ll take me a very long time to pay off, with a lot in interest.

He has told me he will help me out if I need to/ if I ask. I haven’t, because I’m embarrassed.
Do you think it’s out of line for me to ask him to pay it off, and I’ll give him $1k a month, every month, to pay him back?  It’s essentially what I would pay now, to pay it off, but It’ll save me a sh*tload in interest/ be done way sooner.

Should I even ask ?[/quote]

He should have offered, but yes... I think it’s totally fine and if he loves you and wants to be with you he should never ask for the $1000 back.

Maybe I am from a bother culture, but being so stingy with money on both sides is the most unattractive thing ever. FYI my DH makes more than I do, is a lot older, but I come from Money and he does not, I have inheritance and trust fund so I am the last person looking for a sugar daddy[/quote]

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