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I really am not a couch potato. I am not looking to win the nobel prize or anything, but  I am pretty active overall.

I haven't written off women with kids, but i have dated a couple and its just too much. I respect them, and i like their strength, but I didn't get to see them often, which was a dealbreaker. I like a good partner in my life.

I guess i should have mentioned...i am divorced, which may be another deal breaker for some. It was amicable, we married young and in the end...she wanted kids despite telling me the day we married she didn't want any. I asked her every year whether she wanted any, just to make sure.

So yeah. Minds do change. [/quote]

I do run, lift, do HIIT, 5-6 times a week, regularly run half marathons, and eat fairly well, but guess what - I'm still 15 lbs overweight bc I have PCOS or fluffy as I call it.  Thankfully though my bf doesn't mind my size, but I admit I'd be a bit turned off if you told me you only wanted fit women.  If you had that in your profile, I'd swipe left.  I could totally do active things with you, but I won't look like you want me too, and that is too much f*ing pressure - hard pass.  I'm just two years younger than you, and my bf works at a non-profit making less than you, so salary isn't what matters.  I haven't decided if I want kids or not yet, but I could see that being a deal breaker for many of my friends.

I get that you are only attracted to a certain type, but being "fit" over 30 is expensive so I could definitely see wanting a rich man to help pay for gyms, boutique classes, salons, dermatologists, whole foods, etc.

I on the other hand pay for some of that stuff myself, and my bf finds me sexy regardless of my size.  I'm okay with his salary bc he is doing great work and is happy.  [/quote]

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