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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was talking about male friends whose wives took their names

I can't imagine a scenario where I would end up friends with a man who was capable of taking his wife's name[/quote]

Dude, you have some serious insecurity problems.  I have plenty of friends whose wives did not take their last name.  We don't care.  We're all friends and we're all happy for our guy friends.  I know three friends who took their wives' names.  Also not a problem.  Why you hang so much of your masculinity on something so inconsequential is just boggling to me.  I feel my masculinity by having had children, having a family that I love and obviously loves me and that I care for the way a man takes care of his family.  I'm a provider, caretaker, protector.  But, I am not a monarch, owner or dictator.

If you feel threatened, even in your subconscious by your wife keeping her surname, then you have a problem that is yours and no one else's problem.  If you are that insecure then even if she changed her name, you would still find something else to obsess over.  This is psychological problem of yours.[/quote]

Great write-up PP. Hope this earns you an A+ in your pretend-to-be-a-man online project for your women's studies degree[/quote]

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