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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what kind of father was he to the children before you left? You mention up thread that he drinks heavily; this would really give me pause.

Since you live in Western MD, wondering if you are anywhere near FSU? That might be an untapped resource for you in terms of employment and childcare. Maybe they have a daycare on site or you could find a student who would want to provide daycare at a more reasonable rate.

Lastly and no judgement here but don't go down the stripping route if there is anyway your husband could find out. You wouldn't want it to be used against you in any way during the divorce. [/quote]

Husband is kind of a checked out person in general, when he's not furious (constantly on his phone/watching TV). He has been diagnosed with ADHD in he past but was reevaluated and they didn't find that he had it - however, his behavior is very consistent with having ADHD. I worry a lot about his getting easily overwhelmed, and therefore angry, and also not taking enough safety precautions. (Over the summer he was visiting a family with a pool and our daughter almost drowned.)

Yes, I live in Frostburg. The campus has childcare for kids 2+ for students, faculty, and staff (I'm considering going back to school for a masters so looked into this) and have applied to jobs there as well. I have a couple of faculty friends, which is no help to me, outside of the pleasure of having friends who are super smart in one facet of study! [/quote]

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