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[quote=Anonymous]This week - 1 - if you need food, find out when food banks in your area pass out food and plan to go to their next distribution. 2 - start calling around for lower cost childcare arrangements - will your child qualify for head start? 3 - there are jobs for virtual assistants and other work from home type jobs that are legit. Look into these and apply. They are not ideal but they are something 4 - reach out to your friend and let her know that you are really truly struggling. Ask if she can take the kids for a couple hours this week just so that you can a short break. 5 - reach out to your family, yes it sucks to do so, and I get where you are coming from bc we are the same kind of family but if any of my siblings ever called me and said they truly needed money, I would give them whatever I could. And in terms of CS, I don't think you are going to get that much more. I have a salary comparable to a GS-13 and if your DH moves back to the DC area, $1050 is going to be a significant portion of his check. Keep in mind he will have to find a place to live and this will be a place that your kids will visit at so you want it to be in a decent neighborhood. If you are truly still overwhelmed in a month, move back overseas and live with your DH. Get a job and start saving money. Plan to separate upon his job returning to the US.[/quote]
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