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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I hope the conversation your dh had with them left your good relationship intact. What they did was inappropriate but you've said repeatedly how great they are. I'd go out of my way to let them know how much I appreciate them.

BUT change the damn locks no matter what they say. My ils were wonderful. I loved them. They pulled something similar and we realized every time they were in our home, they were going through every drawer, closet, office documents etc. They were wonderful but it took some time before we realized. Dh's sister visited and did this in front of us.

Change the locks. It isn't that expensive. It is pretty easy to do yourself and you can get better quality locks. We had neighbors who pushed all the neighbors around us to give them keys for emergencies. We refused because when we first moved in, they insisted on giving us a tour of the home of a neighbor who was on vacation. Any time one of the neighbors would go on vacation, they would go through the house regularly and invite other people to see the house. These were lovely people who we loved having as nieghbors. They were wonderful except for this boundary issue. We never gave them our keys and we had our locks changed immediately. [/quote]

Why did you go on such a tour?! You were just as complicit in invading a Neighbor's privacy. You are just as bad as them! Say NO. [/quote]

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