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[quote=Anonymous]Much respect to those that choose to research their true origins and ancestry.  There is nothing wrong with how you start, it's how you finish the race and how proceeded that matters most. In that moment of reflection, and one looks back and says, "Did I repair with whom I hurt, did I do my best i all things, did I conduct myself with integrity and faithfulness and teach my children to do the same, did I forgive what is not mine to hold onto and ask forgiveness where I should?"  Everything else does not matter.

Reading some of the posts in this thread was saddening as I realize that there are people hurting that said rude and selfish things.  Whether they meant to make themselves appear superior, thus feel better, or are judgmental in some way, one thing is for sure, it was unsolicited by the OP and wrong.  I know OP says it's not worth bringing attention to.  True the best option is to not bring attention to the individual offender but to move on, which is why they did not continue to post here.

Then again, it appears that many have been encouraged or touched, which I think makes your time wholly worthwhile. You have demonstrated forgiveness not only for your parents and other family, but others in this forum and thread.  Classy, I would say.  You inspire me to be better. I hope you write a book about this, as I am betting there is much, much more. I would buy the book!   If that happens, would you please find it in your heart to post here and let us know?  In some little way, I feel like we have gone through this with you.  I am so happy for you!

I have a family member that has gone through something very similar.  I cannot wait to share it with them![/quote]

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