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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]This thread is a mess. If the genders were reversed and it was workaholic dad judging less than perfect mom...it would be a completely different discussion.
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It is also bizarre how many people have this black and white line about me and women. All men are terrible fathers and terrible at home and every mother has a perfect home with perfect kids.

Really you have never met a two income family where mom is home more but she doesn't get a home cooked meal on the table every night? Where the house gets messy or laundry falls behind? Where homework gets rushed or gets left to the kid to be responsible for (especially at the ages in the OP)?

So many seem to be giving mom a free pass since she works more - all at home is dad's problem. Yet every post about dad works late, I do everything turns into what a loser dad is and how dad needs to step up.

This thread is just weird.[/quote]

YES!  If it were a DAD walking into the mess and threatening to leave over it, DCUM would be all over the dad for being sexist and assuming that the wife should be doing all the work at home and there would be an outcry of what a sexist pig he is.  
Almost like it’s not true.  It’s not even a very good troll thread. [/quote][/quote]

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