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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS become a weekend or part time parent. My love for my children and desire to wake up with them every single morning and tuck them in every single night would always far outweigh my desire for romance.

I hear what you are saying OP and i think monogamy crushes the spirit,  but my kids are really my life. No way in hell would I compromise that.

My mom found love at 60. If i decided i was truly missing out on passion and needed it to complete my life, Id wait until the kids were done with college. I couldn't even fathom sharing holidays. Nope nope nope.[/quote]

This is exactly how I feel! I had developed feelings for a co-worker and lived through the misery of it for a whole year. And then I emerged on the other side.
And then, my husband decided he wanted out. Totally sidelined!

So I suppose there is only so much you can control, but it's ultimately about what you think is best and what you can live with. For some, thinking they should be with someone else, and living a happier life is a responsibility towards one's children too, and that's fair. For me, I would have preferred working on keeping the family intact, but who knows.

OP, I could have been you, but for the grace of whatever. As it were, I'm now more in your husband's position. I hope you two can make sure your kids know it's not their fault and that you both love them more than anything, regardless of what you decide is the best thing to do.[/quote]

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