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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I could NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS become a weekend or part time parent. My love for my children and desire to wake up with them every single morning and tuck them in every single night would always far outweigh my desire for romance.

I hear what you are saying OP and i think monogamy crushes the spirit,  but [b]my kids are really my life.[/b] No way in hell would I compromise that.

My mom found love at 60. If i decided i was truly missing out on passion and needed it to complete my life, Id wait until the kids were done with college. I couldn't even fathom sharing holidays. Nope nope nope.[/quote]

That's scary.[/quote]

Not to mention super unhealthy for the kids. [/quote]

Oh give it a rest Joan Crawford.

My parents were devoted to us kids and we grew up in a home where were were loved,  our world was secure, and beyond a doubt our parents revolved around us. All 4 of us kids have healthy marriages and we are all very tight with our parents and each other. My parents are amazing grandparents to their 11 grandkids. I couldn't dream up a better childhood and start in life.

My favorite time of year always is November -December when all 6 of us (now 21 with families) are back under my parents roof. The home is filled with love, it is great to be back in our childhood home making more memories.

My siblings and I have talked about it at length. When our parents get too old to care for themselves there is no way in hell they will go into a assisted living home. We will care for them and their end days just as well as they cared for us when raising us.  I'm going to really freak you out, my mom and my sister  and I get on a 3 way call at least once a week and shoot the shit and on top of that I text or talk to my parents every single day.

Maybe I should get counseling for how unhealthy my childhood was. I feel so left out that my marriage isnt falling apart.

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Dude!! +1 to literally almost all of this. Particularly the October-November part...that made me smile [/quote]

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