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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Polly had a party but [u]excluded some of the girls from[/u] [b]only some girls could stay for[/b] the sleepover.[/quote]
Corrected that for you.
Do you ever take one of your kid's friend to a concert or play with you? Just one friend out of several. Were your kid ever invited and gone on a trip with a friend's family?
Kids are capable of understanding that some adults can only handle a certain number of guests. They know whose house can hold a 10 person sleepover and whose can't. [/quote]

That's not the same thing. Sure, some of the kids could decline the sleepover portion but in this case it wasn't offered. Nor is it the same as inviting one or a few friends to a concert. Here the celebration here is the party from beginning to end and some kids make the cut for the entire party but others don't based on the level of friendship. Why even invite the kids who don't make the sleepover cut?[/quote]
Concert can be a celebration. It's not about making a cut. I am sure that girls would love to see everyone sleepover but they understand that parents are not capable of dealing with that much "partying". Even with 9 11 yo girls you need at least one soundproof room for all the screaming that will be going on. 
I have not seen kids that age that don't understand limitations of the adults.[/quote]

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