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[quote=Anonymous]My first wife put on about 60 lbs (no kids) and yes it impacted my attraction to her.  Ultimately, she found a string of guys who found her attractive enough to screw her.  She slept with at least five guys that I'm aware of and had two affairs.  She was also a budding alcaholic and I couldn't work and save around her spending.

I threw her out after I found out about the second affair and we had an amicable divorce.

When I started dating again I would only date women who had a lifelong view of fitness and did it for themselves.  I think that I viewed overweight women as not having their sh*t together - If you don't care about your health then what do you care about?  And what else in life do you take to excess.

In hindsight, I know that viewpoint is wrong and people are just people. I did meet and marry a person who was very fit.  We've been married now 14 years and she's still really fit and I'm very attracted to her.  Obviously, she's so much more than a fit body but I love being attracted to each other.  [/quote]

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