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[quote=Anonymous]If I found unfamiliar pantyhose in my drawer I would guess that they had been left behind by my mother or mother-in-law or another house guest from who knows when.  The fact that DH reacted angrily the second time you asked about the pantyhose does not seem inappropriate to me, especially if his initial reaction seemed like a legitimate "no idea where they came from."

But the mental breaks and disappearances change the equation here.  Your husband is obviously tormented by something.  Maybe he has a second family, maybe he is struggling with sexual identity or a history of abuse or an active addiction.  Mental break can mean a lot of things: Maybe he is going through periods where he loses touch with reality and if so, who knows what kind of trouble he is exposing himself and your family to.

At any rate, leaving home for extended periods of time is more than cheating and it is NOT normal.  You need to insist on speaking with his psychiatrist if he has one, and also consider hiring a private investigator.[/quote]

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