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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, how did things go this weekend, what with him supposed to come by and get his stuff and all? 
[/quote] He came and got everything! It's done. I feel so relived it's over and can move on!!  He was very apologetic and we talked, he seemed crushed that I couldn't get past it.
I had to re explain that it wasn't even the initial lie, it was ALL the lies and making stuff up around the initial lie over the years.  He said his worst nightmare was me finding out about it. That is he relieved its out, but devastated. He asked if we can get coffee sometime this week and talk.  I said yes, pretty much so he would leave. I just am not going to agree to a coffee date. We both need to move on.  Ugh.[/quote]

I know this really blows, OP.  But you've got a ton of people who are happy for you right now and wishing you well in the future.

There's something funny here that I've been learning to identify while dating after divorce.  It's that little being crushed that *you* couldn't get past it.  He made it your problem.  How about being crushed that he hurt you so badly?  Crushed that he broke your trust?  Crushed that his bad actions resulted in the end of the relationship?[/quote]

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