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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find both men and women, but especially women (probably since they do the majority of child care) look soooooo much older if they had kids young.  Not just compared to their childless peers- but when they get older and things have equalized, the ones who had kids young just look more haggard to my eye.  Generalizing, of course.[/quote]

Yikes lady. Feeling insecure and trying to justify your own choices much? This is objectively not true [/quote]

Shrug.  It's what I've seen, time and time again. But... to each their own.  [/quote]

You are clueless. As a woman who became a parent in my 30s, having kids older wrecks absolute HAVOC on an older person. There is no comparison. My niece recently had a baby at 23 (5 months ago) and we just got back from the beach where she was parading around in her bikini, but cheeks barely covered. Not a single inch of lose skin or flab. Young bodies bounce. Young bodies are biologically designed to bear children.

You will not find a single older mother who will tell you that having kids at an older age will perserve your looks. It's the absolute down fall into rapid middle age. [/quote]

But it's not the kids that age you, it's the actual age.  Your niece has nice buttcheeks because she's 23, no baby will change that assuming her bum looked great to begin with.  By 40, buttcheeks are going, whether you've had kids or not.  It's not like a pregnant 40-year old had a perfect body before she got pregnant.  [b]Your body will be aged by the number of years it spent walking the earth, not by pregnancies.[/b] [/quote]

No compare women who have never had babies to ones who have. Even when you lose all the weight, your hips and even ribs often spread wider to accommodate your uterus and they never go back. Women who have never had babies are usually narrower, giving them a leaner, much chicer look.[/quote]

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