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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ddintysons][quote]Nope. They are wonderful.

You, are the other hand, do not deserve to have kids anywhere near you.

You sound like you have some kind of anger issue and should seek professional help. It's not like someone insulted YOUR child. People are entitled to different opinions. Chill the eff out.[/quote]

Are you a mental health professional?  Most likely, no. When suggesting someone seek professional help, you are implying an expertise that you do not have. It makes you sound condescending and it is stupid thing to do.  At the end of your post, you tell me to "chill the eff out."  Consider what you said since you might want to focus on your own anger issues before offering any suggestions.

I work as an advocate for children's services and have found that applying terms like "baggage" to children can act as a buffer to treating them as humans.  That is a professional opinion based on years of study and experience.

Nobody insulted my children.  However, if the term is offensive it does not matter if it is applied to my children or to someone else's children.

However, other people may have a different opinion regarding the word and feel that the term is not harmful to use.  Okay.  As you noted, people are entitled to different opinions.

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lol, yeah, because YOUR tone isn't condescending at all. :roll:[/quote]

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