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Reply to "Would you admit you have a child on the first date?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. It's a kid, not an STD. Mention it casually during the first date. Don't make it sound like you're ashamed. "Is having kids a dealbreaker" sounds like you've been rejected a lot in the past and are ashamed. "My kids are my world, so you need to know that upfront" is also a bit overdone and sounds like there's no room for the new person. But "I passed by XYZ the other day on the way to pick up my daughter" is the Goldilocks option. For what it's worth,[b] most guys assume a woman over a certain age has kids. [/b]The whole point of the first date is to find out what each person has to offer the potential relationship. If he's not interested, best to find out in the beginning. Good luck. [/quote] It's actually more alarming if she's over 30 and does NOT have kids, because then you know she's desperate to get knocked up before her ovaries expire.[/quote]
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