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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm on my second marriage and have been married to both.

My first wife put on 50-60 lbs.  We never had kids, eating healthy and working out just wasn't her thing. I never asked her to change but I definitely tried to get her to participate with me in working out and doing more active things.  Even though I never said anything it definitely impacted our relationship.  I just wasn't attracted to her and didn't look at her.  In fact, one time on vacation she even commented that we'd been there all week and I hadn't taken one picture of her.  I felt terrible.  Ultimately, she ended up having multiple affairs which led to our divorce.

Fast forward and I've been married for 14 years to a wonderful woman who is also really into staying fit.  I couldn't possibly be more attracted to her.  We snuggle every night when we go to bed and hug every morning before our showers.  I also feel like we set a good example for our son for a healthy sustainable lifestyle and relationship.[/quote]

Sometimes women subconsciously put on weight to purposefully make themselves unattractive. If she was having affairs it sounds like she just was done with you.

It sounds like you are both happier now.[/quote]

And who would blame her?[/quote]

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