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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I mean this with genuine concern... I think you need therapy. You seem to have a lot of turmoil in your life with your ex, and your teenager, I'm sure there is tons of stress navigating all of that. it could help a lot. [/quote]

OP here.

You may be surprised to know that I am the one who has facilitated 90% of the therapy in the family.  I worked extensively with my daughter, but my ex refused to work together to improve our post marriage parenting relationship.

You may also be surprised to know that the therapist (who specializes in teens) feels like my position and parenting is solid, and that I have met them half way through a lot of self work.  She (therapist) feels that it is my ex and my daughter who are the ones who need to do the work at this point.

Guys, I didn't say I'm done with my DAUGHTER.  I'm done with the DRAMA and BEHAVIOR and my ex causing un-needed drama.  I love my kid.  In fact we have been talking about things all afternoon.

I feel very misunderstood here and I will bear the blame for poorly communicating the situation and my position.[/quote]

That's great, Yay You!

It's fine to say you are don with the drama and will not respond to it.   Send the message someone above posted.   "Sorry, on thinking about I realize I was wrong to post a picture of you without permission.  I love you always and unconditionally, even when things are tough.   Call me when you are ready and I will listen."

Your daughter may need to "do work" but she is 14 and if she doesn't so the work or meet you halfway, you meet her more than halfway.  You meet her 100%.[/quote]

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