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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can certainly see why you, as his girlfriend, would be intimidated by this. However, he's been friends with her for years and you've only been in his life for a few months. I would be pretty pissed if a new boyfriend started telling me that I shouldn't be friends with my close male friends because he was concerned that our texting about work BS and Game of Thrones was a threat to our relationship.

If I wanted to text my husband about these things, I would (and do!). Doesn't change that I'm also going to talk to other people in my life that I'm close to.

I think you need to figure out what exactly bothers you so much. That he chooses to talk to her instead of you? Do you want to talk to him for 3 hours while he's driving to see you? Do you want to text him incessantly?[/quote]

My brother used to have a friend from college that was just a really great friend. And I always swore they had more going on, but the reality was, they didn't. They just had a great friendship. Sounds like this is the case with your bf. She might be a mentor to him (you mentioned she is much older than he is)... Some people really need this. I know that I do. I have never found an older woman as a mentor, but have been very fortunate to have bosses that were mentors and we remained friends long after I had moved onto better opportunities.[/quote]

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