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[quote=Anonymous]OP- The issue for you is that you are not sure what your boundaries are.  He has given you information on the relationship he has with this woman, and I think you want him to tell you something to make you feel comfortable about it.  Instead of this approach, how about reaching deep to determine what your boundaries are on this and communicating those to him.  I would be very clear if I were not comfortable with that level of texting and I would not be ashamed about it.  If it makes you feel uneasy - you feel uneasy... communicate it to him and let him determine what he does with that information.  If he wants to continue with whatever behaviors make you feel uncomfortable, then you clearly know where you fall on his priority list.  If he wants you to feel comfortable (because you are a priority) then he will work with you on it.

If you can't understand yourself and communicate your needs... how can you expect your boyfriend to do that for you? Once you do understand and communicate what you need... if he doesn't respond the way you need then it is probably not a relationship to keep going.  This is a great predictor for the dynamic you will have in your relationship for solving problems... use it as an opportunity :)[/quote]

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