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[quote=Anonymous]22:51 here. I just saw in posts above that you are a SAHM with 3 kids and you can afford to have another because your DH has a great income and HE has another 30 years of working life ahead.
 
-Maybe you are being selfish. Why don't you want to go back to work?
-Maybe he doesn't want to be the only income earner parent for another 6 years at least. Talk to him about this.
-Maybe you just love baby and toddlerhood-having another won't cure that. It will come back when that one is older.
- Yes, this is very different from someone with one child (I thought that was the issue in this thread)

No Matt what the answers above are, if one person doesn't want a baby, don't do it! Do not forget or delay or otherwise mess up your contraceptive. That's unethical and if you do get pregnant again and then you divorce for some other reason in a couple of years, life may be by hard for you managing 4 kids and having to go back to work. Any couple can get divorced so don't think it can never happen to you.[/quote]

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