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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why are you attracted to exeptionally petite Asian women? What can they give you that others can't? Also, maybe you can move to California or overseas to find what you are looking for..[/quote]
Because most American (white) women are overweight these days once you get to 40s... Just a fact. Look at Tiger Mom. She's still killing it at 50.[/quote]

Yuck. [b]You have it all figured out[/b], don't you, and you just can't find that person who will fit the story you've made up for yourself. I dated a lot before meeting my husband. I met a few like you and ran as fast as possible. [/quote]

Yep, I generally plan important things out in life. I'm looking to get married once. Not divorce because I didn't dot my i's and cross my t's. [/quote]

You can't plan a successful marriage by choosing someone who fits into a checklist.  You plan a successful marriage by becoming the kind of person who can be in a relationship long term--someone open, positive, flexible when needed, emotionally secure, honest with yourself and others and with strong communication skills.  What posters here are trying to tell you is that, once you work on these qualities, you can find happiness with many people who might not be who you'd expect.  Without these qualities, you could choose your ideal woman from every woman in the world and you would still end up miserable.[/quote]
+1000
Some of the best relationship advice ever.[/quote]

Agee. These OW are just answering the question. The others are trying to belittle them because they do not like their answers. I got in involved with an OW because my marriage was in an extremely bad place. When I met the other woman, I decided I was going to pursue her. I first told her that I was separated (I was not) and wanted to get a divorce in time. The OW believed this and we were involved for five years. Although the OW pushed for me to finalize the divorce, I came up with multiple excuses. 
My wife found out about the affair and I came clean to her. At this point I was ready to walk away and get divorced. My wife acknowledged that our marriage had become terrible and convinced me to stay and work on it through therapy. Since we had kids together, I agreed. We are still together after 6 years, with a lot of individual therapy for both of us and some couples therapy. I stopped seeing the OW four years ago. I miss her and think of her constantly. I regret hurting her and would go back to her if my marriage ultimately failed. [/quote]

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