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Not talking about this particular case, but instead the new reality. If a man and woman get totally drunk and have sex why is it the man is expected to have complete cognitive capacity and ask her a detailed line of questions before he puts his penis in even if they are naked and aroused. However, if she didn't give consent she has a right to press charges.

Back to the case. She was in bed, naked and had sex with him. He was a moron for not asking, but plenty of horny men do not think enough about consequences. What if he was still drunk in the morning? Why did she stay over night with him in a state of nakedness? This is not blaming a victim. This is about people taking care of themselves like grownups. If he doesn't want to wake up to someone touching him, then he shouldn't sleep naked with someone he already had sex with either.

It's hard enough to get horny teens and young adults to talk openly about birthcontrol and STDS before sex. If they have access to alcohol it makes things worse. Do we really think these kids will now think to ask when making out-may I touch your breasts? Then after fingering..may I proceed to penile penetration? She might turn to him and say "May I give you oral sex?" What if she accidentally uses teeth? He didn't agree to this? Is that assault?[/quote]

I hope no prosecutor is stupid enough to take this to trial. This is not assault.  I got extremely drunk when i was a teen (don't remember most of it) and slept with a guy.  I was not able to consent.  But I took that right away from myself when I got drunk.  I felt horrible afterwords, but I did not feel like he assaulted me.  I do feel i was assaulted when a friend of my ex took all of this clothes off and decided to sit on top of me while trying to stick his penis in my mouth for two hours.  I was not drunk, I did not consent and I fought him off luckily.  I have a son and hope he never ends up unfortunate enough to encounter someone like the girl from this story.  [/quote]

+100 to both PPs.  It's outrageous that this has even become a "thing."   :roll: [/quote]

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