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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get the "porn addict" suggestions. This sounds like conservative mumbo jumbo. No man prefers porn over a woman that he is attracted to, and is obviously available and there aren't resentment issues.

It has to either be something medical, or he was born that way. [/quote]

Wrong. Some porn addicts can only perform with porn. Fact. [/quote]

This sounds like a facile interpretation. Porn is a substitute. Someone who can only perform with porn is probably not attracted to his partner. Or, perhaps so out of shape that regular sex is physically difficult. [/quote]

You don't know what you're talking about. That doesn't stop you, though, does it. Try reading about porn addiction.[/quote]

NP here, this is very real. I have been living it. My husband and I had sex regularly, though not incredibly frequently (once a week, sometimes more, sometimes less). At times he would turn me down or engage begrudgingly when I initiated. I found out that he had an entire secret fantasy life involving sexual roleplay and porn that he would engage in late at night after I went to bed. I figured he was working late or watching TV to unwind. I knew he had to be rubbing one out and watching porn from time to time, but I didn't realize the scope of the issue. We're talking about HOURS AND HOURS, and worse, choosing cybersex when I was ready and willing to have more real life sex. Anyway, we're in a better place now, but it was really a trip when that one came to light![/quote]

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