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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

Such a toxic environment. Poor kids.

Cancel the trip. It won't do anyone any good. I know I'd rather skip Disney than go with a crazy MIL.

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I'm guessing that MIL had a little hand in her son's divorce #1.

Op, you are too involved in your son's romantic life and you will drive any decent woman away from him.  Is that what you want?  If so, you may consider talking this out with a therapist because this whole dynamic is not healthy.[/quote]

Exactly. Why is MIL's house the court-ordered meeting place for DH's child with ex-wife? MIL should have no place in that relationship, except for grandmother to grandson.

DIL could have been more gracious in declining the trip for the family for sure, but based on DH's past history in allowing MIL to have a place in his relationship with ex, DIL probably felt the need to take extreme measures in enforcing a cut-off. [/quote]

I'm guessing you would also be the first one to complain about grandparents not wanting to see the grandkids enough.  I'm not a MIL, but this thread just proves that you can't win no matter what.[/quote]

Baloney.  This was not about MIL getting time in with the grandkids, this was about MIL meddling and attempting to force to exes and a new DIL to vacation together.  That is no vacation.

Do you want to vacation with someone you don't like?  I sure don't.[/quote]

Then I guess they should have said "thanks mom, but we will do something else." [/quote]

I imagine the DIL would have said as much if she had the opportunity to do so.[/quote]

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