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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

Such a toxic environment. Poor kids.

Cancel the trip. It won't do anyone any good. I know I'd rather skip Disney than go with a crazy MIL.

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I'm guessing that MIL had a little hand in her son's divorce #1.

Op, you are too involved in your son's romantic life and you will drive any decent woman away from him.  Is that what you want?  If so, you may consider talking this out with a therapist because this whole dynamic is not healthy.[/quote]

Exactly. Why is MIL's house the court-ordered meeting place for DH's child with ex-wife? MIL should have no place in that relationship, except for grandmother to grandson.

DIL could have been more gracious in declining the trip for the family for sure, but based on DH's past history in allowing MIL to have a place in his relationship with ex, DIL probably felt the need to take extreme measures in enforcing a cut-off. [/quote]

Yeah, you can bet there was a pretty significant history of boundary pushing.  Anyone with half a brain would know better than to "Surprise!" people like that in a situation like this.

If DIL hadn't stood her ground she would have become ex wife #2 after that fiasco of a vacation.

I'm sorry, I do not see how Op could have possibly thought that this would have gone over well.  She overstepped BIG TIME.[/quote]

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