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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think she's mainly upset that I continue to have a relationship with the ex. The ex is family and that is unfair. My friend thinks the Facebook post was set to where only ex DIL can see it because no one else sees it.[/quote]

Sorry but the ex isn't family and I don't believe you should have a relationship with her. Picking up and dropping off from your house is fine, but anything more is too much. You need to be on your DIL's side. [/quote]

Why?  That just stupid.  She wants access to her grandson and being cordial with her ex-DIL is a way to that.  Besides, she didn't divorce her, her son did.  Stop being stupid.  Current DIL needs to take the peg out of her ass and realize she married a divorced man with a child.  [/quote]

I think that if DIL had been dumb enough to accept this gift the next thing that would have happened is that the ex DIL would be coming to Disney Land with them to help MIL watch over her son.

After all, if MIL still considers this ex DIL to be "family" OF COURSE she would pay for ex DIL to come along, too, right?  What a pleasant "vacation" that would have been...

DIL is no fool and could see that sh*t coming before it hit the fan and she said NO WAY.   Team DIL.

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You are an idiot.  Can you really not grasp that divorced people have to manage a relationship when kids are involved?  Should she side with current DIL at the expense of not being able to see her grandson.  I bet you she loves her grandson more than any of these "adults" who can't manage to take their heads out of their asses for five minutes and appreciate a very generous gift.  Of all things to be offended about! Good lord.  Yeah DIL is SUPER WISE!~[/quote]

The MIL is not a divorced person needing to maintain a relationship.  It is her son who is divorced and needs to maintain a relationship with his ex-wife.  The MIL has given absolutely no indication that she needs to maintain a relationship with her dons ex- wife or else risk losing access to her grandchild.  For goodness sake, she thinks she's close enough to her son and DIL to arrange a trip to Disneyland as a fun family trip. If the DIL is correct in telling us that her son knew she was coming on the trip and decided against informing his wife, that's totally on him.  The DIL was right to be very pissed at being tricked into cavatio until with her MIL, but took out her anger on the wrong person, her MIL.  Perhaps her husband told her that his mom had also just surprised him by telling him she was planning on joining the trip.  It's very generous to gift someone such a great family trip, but adults in a nuclear family need to agree on vacation and DIL in this case was clearly blindsided.  The 6-month time out is geakish and weird,  it I understand DIs a gray.  Hopefully all will resolve soon if the family members can talk things through.[/quote]

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