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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh stop. In a real rape situation, for instance, a man would use the threat of violence (through intimidation of some sort).  Pleading with someone not to leave is not the same as violence or intimidation. In this song if the woman wasn't kidding around she could clearly walk out the door.
I'd love to hear how a rape can happen without violence or threatening. If the woman feels threatened, there's obviously some threat. I do agree the threat does not have to be "guy holding knife to throat", in my case my rapist stood at his dorm room door making it quite clear I wasn't leaving, and when I said "no", he intimidated me with very powerful obvious threatening. Not "oh but it's so cold outside". Gimme a break.

if a woman decides after the fact that she felt threatened, I have a real issue with categorizing that as rape.

And As i said, I've not only experienced this but also have 3 daughters. Perhaps we think differently but it does not make me an "idiot" or immature.
Learn how to have a debate maybe and consider other viewpoints. That's maturity.[/quote]

We get it. Any rape that isn't as rapey as yours isn't rape at all. Sorry for the guy for doing with with a bitch, and sorry for your daughters for being stuck with you as a role model.[/quote]

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