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Reply to "I just found out why my DH has been treating me like crap for 3 years"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your DH is a douche for sure. That said, if you never initiated a discussion with him about division of labor and expectations of each other, then that is also partially on you. Easiest solution is to find yourself a part-time job with enough income that will cover a cleaning service and part-time preschool program. If he really has a problem with you working then that's on him. He has no right to dictate your choices like that. If you think you might divorce at some point then you need to make sure you're covered for retirement purposes, even if that means you going back to work full-time. Divorce after you've not been in the workforce for many years can be devastating financially.[/quote]
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