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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many "wives" and mothers think they are entitled to stay home once they have a kid and that their ONLY role is mother. They expect the husband to work and get nothing/expect nothing and be happy about it. This makes me think these wives want to enjoy some sort of Master/slave relationship where they are a FINANCIAL dominant that takes all the income and passes out the occasional treat to their "husband" that anxiously waits on them. Disgusting![/quote]

Sigh.  Most women don't really like having their "only" role be mother, and would like some time to be themselves even after they have children.  Unfortunately, many men don't feel they should have to change the way they live very much at all just because they have children, and this leaves very little time for women to be anything else.  Someone has to be parenting a small child 24/7, and in our culture this is all expected to be done by the nuclear family.  
I have no idea why you think the wives take all of the income.  Yes, women spend most of the money, but they spend it on things for their families.  I can't even really think of big ticket items that married women stereo typically purchase just for themselves.  Most big ticket items that women have are purchased for them by men.  Women don't usually buy their own jewelry for example.

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