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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]YOU have no idea what you're talking about, nor do you know the players.  First, I said nothing speculative about anyone's primary motivations!  [b]But the anecdote shows someone in a terrible situation being kind, correct?  [/b]

The Thai woman - if she's human, is it not reasonable to wonder how she felt giving up her daughter?

Since you want to posit without having the ovaries to just SAY it, that the Thai woman is a monster who didn't care about the daughter anyway (which one cannot know), please get some therapeutic help.  And learn to focus your obvious anger on the man (men?) who hurt you.  [/quote]

You don't understand what I am trying to say.  You think the wife is being kind.  What I'm telling you is that her actions may have the effect of kindness toward the other child.  But that's not what drives her.  What drives her is the good of her marriage and family.  The child, independently of her marriage and family, is simply not a factor to her. She isn't doing what she's doing "for the good of the child."  She concluded, based on her own reasons, that her marriage and family has the highest chance of surviving if the child is integrated vs. left behind.  That's why she acts the way she acts.

I don't think women who give up their children are monsters, women give up their kids for adoption or leave custody to fathers every day around the world.  Not all women have the primordial desire to rear their own. 
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How could you possibly know that? If I were in this situation my primary motivation would be the innocent child that chose none of this. I think it says something about you that you literally cannot comprehend two adults choosing to put the well being of a child before their own. I would certainly hate to have you as a step parent that's for sure.[/quote]

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