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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm opposed to giving up all your own interests and aspirations and dreams just because you have kids.

Also opposed to getting a person to marry you and them turning into a fat, sexless ass who thinks your spouse only exists to help with the kids and bring in money. Goes for BOTH sexes. [/quote]

Your interests and aspirations and dreams should always come after your children's interests, aspirations and dreams.  And the primary job of both parents is to care for the children and bring in money for that purpose.  How they choose to divide the jobs is up to them.  Lots of people do gain weight because they put their children first and when children are young, there is little time for doing your own thing.[/quote]

Totally disagree. My dreams come after my children's needs, but there is time and money for all of us.[/quote]your dream come after your children's needs but before your children's dreams, right?  I get it.  The parent drive the nice car while the kid is told they can't afford to [fill in child's request/dream here].   Kids see this and understand their parent's priorities early on.  [/quote]

This is absurd. A child should have every material luxury a parent has? My dad dreamed of a fancy car for years and when he retired, he bought one. I got his old beater car and was grateful. It teaches children that hard work and generosity are rewarded. Your kid must be incredibly spoiled.[/quote]

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