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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]My revenge is living well - the way I choose to live my life, supported by his income. It's the least I am owed for all the years I have spent with him, supporting his goals. My goal was always to raise my children to be good people (which they are, despite their father) and to look forward to grandchildren and being there for them, which my husband won't be. He barely even interacts with the kids he has, much less grandchildren.

I'm simply continuing with my own original goals and not letting his choices get in the way of mine.[/quote]

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You have hardened yourself, understandably.  But in doing so you are blocking the painful but necessary changes life could bring you that make us all grow and see the world and ourselves differently.  You are teaching your kids not resilience, but instead to let pride and fear of change trump being true to yourself.  Who know what you are capable of once you are free from the husband who devalues you?  I bet it's a lot more than waiting around for your theoretical grandchildren to arrive.  Good luck to you.   [/quote]

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