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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree this is a super interesting thread. So, on some level this is basically what I (and my husband, for that matter) do -- but not from a position of prior conflict or unhappiness. We love each other and get along well and enjoy each other's company. But we're both pretty self sufficient, and we don't particularly depend on each other for our own happiness. If he wants to do something that I don't, or vice versa, no big deal. We spend a lot of time in the same space but doing separate things. We make major decisions jointly, but I don't spend a lot of time seeking his approval and he doesn't seek mine either. We do what makes us happy. For us, the big challenge is making the time/effort to connect with each other, because we're both inclined to drift into our own orbits.[/quote] Yes, and this leads to disconnection! Ding ding ding! I still do it though, because you have to take care of you.[/quote]
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