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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We aren't married yet. I left my spouse, and then he left his wife. It's better than I imagined it would be. Some days we do nothing at all. He sits on the couch working, and I'm curled up next to him reading.
I like that he comes home to me, and I have dinner ready. I like that he does my laundry. I like that we spend time with friends together and go on road trips without his phone blowing up. My blood pressure is much better. I enjoy pillow talk. I like constantly hearing "we". I'm happy to have finally met his family. The best thing is he doesn't go back to her at night.[/quote]

THIS is what we all want. Well, OK, this is what I want.[/quote]

Ugh.  How long has it been?  Sounds like no kids.[/quote]

He has 1 child. He's very active in Dc's life. I don't want to meet dc until after the divorce is final.[/quote]

Ha. [/quote]

+1.  Oh dear.[/quote]

Does his family know that he cheated with you?[/quote]

Yes. His marriage was over a long time before I showed up. He didn't leave because he didn't want to leave for many reasons I won't go into. His family didn't like her and the way she treated him. I know the wives on these boards are painted like saints but no one likes this woman.[/quote]

Well, actually it's kind of a cliche that the first wives are blamed for everything and called crazy, but that's what women say when they are in love with married men.  But you seem to have a sane perspective on your situation so I wish you well.[/quote]

PP, does it bother you that your man has proven he will break his marriage vows?[/quote]

No. It bothers me that he didn't leave sooner. They were in therapy for nearly a decade. He should have left when she said voices were telling her to kill his dogs.[/quote]

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