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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's not really the affair, it's that both people are crazy enough to have the affair.  The ability to lie that much for that long, the willingness to be with someone you know is a cheater, and the poor relationship skills that cause you to cheat rather than work on the marriage.  These are the underlying reasons that affair relationships fail and take other family relationships down with them.  The affair is merely a symptom of the underlying craziness and selfishness.[/quote]

This is Spot. On.[/quote]

+1.  Once I accepted the underlying reality that my mom is a nut, I was able to make sense of things a lot better.  I had to give up on having a real relationship with her, but it's a lot simpler now that I accept she is crazy and stop trying to talk through our issues.

Of course, she would say that we're all a big happy family.  But that's just because I've given up trying to persuade her otherwise.  A certain distance from reality seems to be a common trait of cheaters.[/quote]

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