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[quote=Anonymous][quote]DW here. With 3 kids and a full time job I could go for weeks without thinking about sex. My husband was frustrated coz it was important for him. He expressed his displeasure but it just didn't click with me. Then one day he looked at me with the most serious face I have ever seen and said "I love you but lack of sex is not working for me and I CANNOT take it any more" He didn't mean divorce but his voice and face touched me and I started working on it. Things are now much better. I suggest you be more firm in expressing your feelings. You have repeated so many times that she always feel depressed and that she is a bad wife if you express your feeling. Believe me she will not die out of it. I was there too! Be firm. Only having sex with your wife will make you feel better. Reading posts here on this topic also gave me a deep insight on how important sex is to men. Introduce here to these posts. They have helped me to change my mindset or at least be sensitive or his needs. Good luck.[/quote]

You might be my wife posting.

We go through this cycle - I get to the breaking point with lack of sex, we have the big "I can't live like this" talk, then she cries, then we have more sex then it tapers off.  Rinse, repeat.  Is there nothing a man can do to get his wife interested in sex for sex sake, and not just to keep the family intact?  Yes, my wife orgasms every time, but like poster above,  she never thinks about sex and has no desire for it outside of me raising the issue.  [/quote]

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