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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I mean, what can I do?  
He's a sweetheart, a good man to me, gentle, understanding, emotionally available, 'there' for me.. Etc etc. Shows no other bad qualities. 
But this isn't okay with me, it's not something that will go away. I will continue to think about it and continue to let it bother me. 
I can attempt a last ditch effort... Voice my concerns on the off chance it'll create some sort of epiphany in his mind and he tries to repair and evolve the relationship?[/quote]

You have the mindset of a victim of abuse and a codependent.  It is not your job to fix him or his relationships.  He doesn't need you for an "epiphany". This is the petson he has chosen to be.  Your only choice is whether to accept him as he is.

There are many good men out there who also meet their responsibilities to their kids.

This is classic user behavior, trying to put a good spin on something that is really mot OK and making you feel like you are "not understanding."

You ask "what can I do?". Well the obvious answer is to break up with him.  That is entirely in your control.[/quote]

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