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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the same person posting over and over that marriage is about compromise and therefore OP should do this? That the compromise in question means OP ceding to this specific request, and not the myriad other role playing ideas she's offered to try? That compromise only applies to her?

Also, is said poster drinking heavily?[/quote]

NP, totally sober  :lol: .

Marriage is all about compromise.  Sometimes compromise is saying "I'm not comfortable with that, why don't we try this instead?" which is what the OP indicates she did.  Sometimes compromise means trying something new that you are unsure about, but it's important to your partner so you do it anyway.  Sometimes compromise is doing what you know you'll hate, but once again, it's important to your partner so put your big girl panties on (or a cheerleading outfit) and get to it.

Pick your battles.  Learned that with parenting and it totally applies to spousing as well.  If it's really meaningful to you that you don't do it, explain it to your partner in a loving way.

I f***ing hate spending time with my in-laws.  They are toxic.  But it's important to dw to try and work on that relationship, so I man up and get through it.  I'd much wish DW asked me to put on a fire fighter jacket and a red banana sling jock strap and get busy while listening to George Strait sing "The Fireman."  And I hate country music!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGdWmexwJok[/quote]

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