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[quote=Anonymous]My husband claims to have no fantasies.  I have asked him about this and have told him mine.  I often wonder if he is just embarrassed by whatever his fantasy is, or if he really is just happy with how things are.  FWIW, my fantasy was very tame, about having him basically telling me what he was going to do and doing it, sort of taking over.  I'm definitely not talking about anything nonconsensual - if he said he was going to say something bizarre, I would say no, but it's more that he would be in control because he is never really that assertive.  He has never done it and has said he would be uncomfortable with it, so I feel like I am the one with the pressure to change things up and be assertive.

I would do the cheerleader thing, it doesn't freak me out.  I really don't think of young girls when I think of cheerleaders.  But, honestly OP, it's up to you.  You said you gave options for other role playing, and it's just this one cheerleading thing that freaks you out.  I think that's totally fine - you shouldn't have to do something that would make you completely unhappy and, without getting too explicit, you do need to be at least somewhat in the mood for things to progress comfortably.[/quote]

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