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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with OP's case is she's snooping on her boyfriend. This is literally the only problem here.[/quote]

OP Here...Not snooping, phone hadn't locked yet, a text came in, I looked down and saw it and the name of the person so I picked up the phone. If I hadn't I would still be in the dark about all this. Thinking everything was great and this relationship was progressing. I could have just let it go but my gut told me to pick it up and I did.[/quote]

OP, that is snooping. You looked at his phone. It doesn't matter if it was locked or not or whether you were right or not. You picked up his phone and read something that was not intended for you.

I think that the main thing here is that you are insecure and you do not trust your boyfriend. If you want to know if he is interested in her romantically, ask him, "Sam, are you interested in Beth romantically? If she asked you to have sex with her, would you do it?" Right now, it sounds like your boyfriend is into you and doesn't understand why you are so threatened by this woman. Either tell him what your actual concern is and address it, or cut him loose and let him find someone to date who isn't completely insane.[/quote]

Really? He doesn't seem that into her to me.[/quote]

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