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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My God. I'm glad that I met and married my DH when were young. I'm 38 now. I dated from ages 15-23 --- and never paid for a single date. Not a single one - not drinks, not coffee. Met my DH at 23 in law school. My DH - a poor student, then - paid for every single date until we married. Paid for our vacations (Thailand, Mexico, Europe). He was and continues to be awesome. I stayed at home for 5 years to raise our kiddos and then promptly went back to work (we're both high-paid lawyers). But NEVER has never complained to commented about bearing the larger earner role. Reading these threads makes me sad for all these women with loser, "b" men. My man is an alpha. Has been since he was young. Never has breathed a word about being a provider. Mind you -- I earn a good amount as well (and have the more prestigious position) -- but he's the main earner. Always has been. Never complained during my 5 years when I did nothing but raise our babies. I always warn women to watch out for those cheapskates trying to pawn off a coffee date on you at date one. I would merger (repeat never) go out on a second date with such a B loser. Hot damn. It's not about feminism. Shoot -- I'm a bad ass -- it's about self-respect. Any man wanting to spend time with me will WANT to pay. What a ton of losers on this board. So sad for the women of DCUM. [/quote] +1[/quote] +100000000 6 years in and I've never paid for anything. [/quote]
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