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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like things are going nowhere with this guy, that he's shopping around. Things have stalled with you, but no one wants to say anything. He's going to keep enjoying whatever you have on offer while he continues shopping for someone else. Your gut is telling you that. He has problems with communication and inertia, according to what he said about his failed marriage. It sounds like he's going down that path with you. You have issues that let you accept less-than-okay treatment from others. Here's a point where you can say, hey, lying to me and shopping around without being honest about the state of things between us is not respectful or acceptable treatment of me.

Maybe there's a reason you've been together a year and still haven't met each others' kids. And you both know it. You're not progressing in a relationship, and are better off openly acknowledging that things will never be more than what they are. And if that doesn't work with you, if you are looking for more, then split up already. If you want to keep hanging out, accept that it's casual and nonexclusive, enjoy it for what it is, and both of you shop around. [/quote]

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