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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Goodness knows I'm probably setting myself up for criticism, but...    :lol:

I'm 41 and dating. I prefer younger guys (guys in their 30s), and I get turned off by guys [on dates] who don't open my car door and allow me to walk through doors first. Lately, I've gone on dates with guys who don't do these things. I certainly don't act like a jerk and stand there waiting for them to open my doors, etc. I proceed as normal, as if it doesn't bother me.

But, I can't help but feel that if you are trying to impress a woman, you should do these niceties. Am I way off base?

Sure, I've been with guys who don't open doors and who aren't generally chivalrous. I wouldn't call it a deal-breaker, but it's a turn-off for sure.

I guess what I'm asking you guys is: Am I pretty much alone? Would any other ladies find a lack of chivalry a turn-off?[/quote]

I love it personally. I am sometime off in another world and the guy I am walking with will be reaching for the door but I get there first and think nothing about it and open door myself. I like when it happens and I don't think it is old fashion, just polite.[/quote]

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