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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do I have this right?

Drama Queen / Immature Behavior
1. Leaving a hospital room in tears.
2. Declining to hold a baby
2. Not going to a nephew's birthday party
3. This behavior was over several months and stopped

Not a Drama Queen / Mature Behavior
1. Believes not holding the baby is being mean to the baby
2. Not going to a 4 yo's party is not acknowledging the child
3.  A year after the incidents, the resent/anger is still present[/quote]

Let's revise this to meet reality:

Drama Queen / Immature Behavior
Declining to even acknowledge any of your nieces and nephews and not attending family events over a period of years because of infertility issues

Not a Drama Queen:
Being hurt that your SIL won't ever have anything to do with your child or relatives children for a period of years, but not giving her a hard time about it.
There is no evidence anywhere in OPs posts that she ever did anything mean or unsympathetic to SIL.

OPs post to this effect:
[quote=Anonymous]OP here again and for the last time haha. I don't care that she didn't hold the baby, some people aren't comfortable with things like that. She just doesn't acknowledge any of her nieces/nephews and yes my nephew does notice when she's a no show to all our family events. He'll ask, "where's auntie?".

I'm really close to my brother and love him dearly, which is why I just keep my feelings to myself. It's just hard sometimes so I came on here to vent. BIG MISTAKE haha. Anyway, thanks again everyone for all your responses. They were very entertaining![/quote]

OPs mistake was thinking she could just vent on this forum.  So many cuckoos.
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