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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, it is a very tough time. The kids really do not know much about the colleges (except that they are not getting into the top ones -- they get THAT message) then it looks like there are thousands of colleges to choose from, and where to start? But really, for most people, with a little thought, you realize that there are not thousands of colleges that meat your needs. For example, maybe you can't (like most people) afford the privates. That cuts it right down to the State colleges, of which there are a limited number. The kids look down on the State colleges because teens are natural snobs, so that leaves them thinking: where will I go that is cool? But in reality, most are going to State, or where their parents went. It is very stressful.
If you are living at all comfortably in the DC area, you do not qualify for FA,[/quote]

This post sums up where we are right now with our junior.   It's a bummer.  [/quote]

Why isn't the logical response to this situation to tell DC that the best state school s/he can get into is the default.  If that's not where DC wants to go, s/he needs to find (and get into) either a school that is worth the extra $ (and both how many extra $ the parents are willing/able to spend and what counts as "worth it" need to be made explicit upfront) or an equally good school that costs no more than the state school (e.g. because of FA or merit money).  That should narrow the search quickly.  [/quote]

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