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I could easily work and support myself and kids on my salary as a GS-15 WAH Fed with benefits and flexibility.

He makes a lot more than me, but I'd survive with my $175k/salary.  
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It is hard for somebody that stopped working at 27-32 years old to him back in the workforce at 45+.[/b]  Really hard.  Don't fool yourself--especially with this economy.  This is why it's wise to downscale if you have the luxury--2-3 days per week or telework, but I'd be careful about just quitting with 60-years of life left.[/quote]

I had a lot of SAHM friends when we had babies and nearly all were back at work within 5 years.  Yes, staying out for 15+ years is a different ballgame but those people are probably not expecting to jump back on the same career track.

My mom quit work as a secretary when she got married in the late 1960s and went back to work 16 years later.  Despite having to completely learn how to work a computer, she was still hireable as an admin and ended up doing that for over 20 yrs before retiring.  Life is long and circumstances and desires change.  Not taking the time you want with your babies for a couple years because you worry about your employability 15 years from now seems a sad way to live.[/quote]

Me me me me me. Time I want. What about the pressure on your husband being the sole breadwinner? The lack of contributions to retirement, to college? [b]But hey, as long as you get your time at Starbucks[/b] and Little Gym, who cares?[/quote]

This is so ironic given the working mom posting that one of her fringe benefits of working was going out to get coffee mere paragraphs above yours. [/quote]

Ha, I thought the same thing!  I guess it's ok to go out for coffee while on the company's dime, but not if you're out and about with your own children.  What a skewed way of thinking.[/quote]

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