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[quote=Anonymous]Hang in there, OP - it will get better. I get where you're coming from. I have been in your shoes a few times - 100% telework, DH deployed, and with a toddler. It is really, really hard, even with full-time childcare and working from home. Don't get down on yourself - you are doing everything you can and I'm sure you're doing a great job.

There are a few things that saved me when DH was gone for long periods of time. First, the cleaning service...don't get rid of it if you don't have to. It helped keep me sane. Second, get a sitter for 4 hours or so either Saturday or Sunday so you can have time to yourself and run errands. I did this during my DH's last deployment and it was a life-saver. Third, I agree with the suggestion to find a different daycare if you can (saw you're on waiting lists). The one my DC went to was open until 6, which meant I could run to the store, fit in a 30 min workout, etc after 5.

Also, if you haven't already, start making friends with local parents. They will be an important support system for you the next time your DH is away.

Good luck and don't beat yourself up. It will get better! [/quote]

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