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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Outsource more. Make sex the priority. Not cooking and the yard. Or you'll end up divorced. [/quote]

Try to compromise, you don't have to like having sex nor should it be a priority before your kids or others factors in the marriage.  Just as he doesn't doesn't like home repairs or chores around the house. That's ok.  Try to tell him how you feel.  Do the duty sex a few times a month, certainly don't reward him for the groping, or pawing. That should stop it by turning around and walking away.  Like kids you don't reward bad behavior.

I would like to know what he said after you talked to him. Did it register?

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This is the most horrible advice ever.  It won't take him long to figure out your doing duty sex and not enjoying it.  
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How are you supposed to enjoy the unenjoyable? If I told you you should eat raw chicken and enjoy it, would you? If her DH wants her to enjoy sex, he should make sure what he does is enjoyable. [/quote]

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